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This is going to be part 3 in my long series on how to keep a healthy relationship. Make sure you bookmark and keep coming back to read more as this will be quite a lengthy series.
9. Stop Being Predictable

So what made your healthy relationship go from great to not there? It was the predictability or the boredom. There was never anything new happening. It was always the same old thing. He would have his thing and likewise with she. So why not show some interest in the other persons likes. Surprise them one day. Show up and participate in what they are doing and hopefully they will give you the same respect when you are doing your thing. Take some chances and do things your partner would never expect.

10. Take A Pill

There is going to be tough spots in all relationships. That’s no big deal because it happens in all relationships. The problem is not letting these issues get too series. So even if times are tense just lighten up. There’s no reason to get excited over every little comment. People always say stupid things in times of stress. Both you and your partner are going to make mistakes. Just realize that you are both human and that happens. A great way to break the tension is make fun of yourself for what you said. This will get both you and your partner laughing again.

11. Talk To each Other

If you want to maintain a healthy relationship then for heaven’s sake don’t stop talking. It is very common in a relationship when things are tough for each partner to stop talking to one another. It’s a great idea to make a commitment to one another that you will talk about things that are bothering you. Also commit to not letting these talks turn into arguments. I can guarantee you will have a very healthy relationship as long as you leave the lines of communication open.

12. Don’t Forget The Bedroom

Love making and intimacy is a definite must in maintaining a healthy relationship. When there are troubles in the relationship most times sex isn’t even thought about. However this is very important to help heal the relationship. Although things may seem a bit awkward at first it is very important. It doesn’t hurt to set up a romantic setting. Hot bubble bath, candles, wine or even rent a nice hotel room for an evening get away. This will definitely put some zoom back into building a healthy relationship.

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How To Win In Love (Part 2)

This is going to be part 2 in my long series on how to keep a healthy relationship. Make sure you bookmark and keep coming back to read more as this will be quite a lengthy series.

5. Give Your Partner Some Room

Of course time together is absolutely what is needed to maintain a healthy relationship. Almost just as important sometimes is the time away you give each other. I don’t care who you are. There are going to be things that both of you just don’t like doing with one another. It’s okay to each go your separate ways at times. It also makes for a healthy relationship in the trust area. If you can’t trust your partner to do their own thing once in a while then this relationship is bound for doom either way.

6. Avoid Stupid petty Arguments

If you want to keep a relationship healthy then it’s in everyone’s best interest to stay away from debates that can turn into stupid arguments. Now I’m not saying that debates can’t be good. The problem is that most times the debate turns into a heated battle that just isn’t needed in any healthy relationship. So if you see or feel it coming on then that may be a good time to steer into a different direction.

7. Don’t Just Talk To Talk

Married or not. Kids or not. Conversation is key to establishing a healthy relationship. Don’t just sit around and talk about the age old question, how is the weather? This can get very dull and boring in a hurry. Questions that are important are questions about your mate or kids. Ask how school or work was. You may not even understand the answers some time but just listening is very good for a healthy relationship.

8. Don’t Let The Old get Away

Maybe you and your mate had some old traditions that you used to do that just fell by the wayside. At one time these traditions were very important so why shouldn’t they be now. It will absolutely do wonders for a healthy relationship to rekindle these old traditions.

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Facts To Help Your Marriage

Now a days in our society marriage seems to just be a game to many people. With the divorce rate hovering around 50% we really need some help. Commitment is just a word that people are mispelling, dating is like a speed race. No one is stopping to get to know one another. So if you happen to be one of the lucky ones that is in a relationship or marriage that you feel is worth working for then I have some help for you.

1. Lets Get Back To The Beginning

We all know that at the start of a relationship everything usually runs as smooth as oil. We all seem to ignore the little annoyances but then the nagging starts. You start picking at one another. So if this sounds like your relationship then its time to sit down and be honest with each other. Now both of you want to make a promise to start over. You need to figure out the things that worked in the past and get back to them. No one is saying this is going to be a piece of cake. You have to both forgive and forget and commit to putting in the effort to getting things the way they used to be. You have to remember to be patient and focus on the little things that made you happy whenyou first started dating.

2. Make Time For Each Other

In todays hustle and bustle making time for one another can often prove to be very difficult. So thats why both of you have to make the commitment to schedule time together and stick to the chosen times. This time can be with friends, it can be going out for a nice meal or even snuggling together on a couch watching the latest new release. Now we all know that when we schedule a business meeting we always show up so its imperitve that you show your relationship the same courtesy. Once the time is set aside the only way you miss it is if someone is dyeing or it may just be you dyeing.

3. A Shocking Touch

Can you just walk up to your partner and give them a nice soft non sexual kiss on the neck. Maybe just play with their hair while watching television or just caress their skin when the opportunity presents itself. Remember you are reaching for affection and not sex. There is a differance. When you first start doing this you may get some weird looks of surprise from your partner but trust me they will look forward to you continuing to do it.

4. Keep Things On The Edge

Ok lets say ahead of time you and your significant other made some plans. Well now that the plans are made its up to you to turn this into an even bigger event. Go behind your partners back and plan something that they love doing. Lets say your hubby loves hockey. So ahead of time you purchase some great tickets for a hockey game. Make sure you drive. When hubby questions as to where the heck you guys are headed tell him what you did. Its something like this that will severley touch his heart and something he will remember forever.

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The first thing you need to know is does your ex want you back. If she still feels the something that had you happy then there is a good chance she will come running back. It is, however in your best interest to make sure she hasn’t moved on because that will be a kick in the privates to you not to mention a great humiliation.

Something that you will be happy to hear is that when women decide to end a relationship they don’t immediately stop having feelings for the guy. This is good for you when determining does your ex want you back.

You need to know how to look at things and how to make your decision. By now you should be able to read her a bit. Hopefully you will see the signs and jump at the slightest bit of interest. Watch for jealousy. If she really doesn’t care for you anymore than you seeing other girls won’t bother her a bit. However if you notice her getting upset or responding in a cranky mood to her friends then that shows that she still has a bit of feeling of wanting to be with you and not wanting anyone else to be with you.

Now this is a great sign, sometimes frustrating but a sure thing that she wants you back. She may just be looking for some sort of commitment. She won’t usually tell you that. That is for you to figure out by taking the simple steps of talking to her. This will help both of you determine if this relationship is worth pursuing.

Just don’t make an idiot out of yourself. Too many guys go after all the other girls just for the purpose of parading them in front of their ex. You need to understand this just makes you look like an idiot. It also makes you look desperate and she will notice that a mile away. Instead just be yourself. If you meet someone that’s interesting then just do whatever comes natural. Now if she sees you with someone you may be interested in, this might bring back her feelings of want for you.

Not in all cases does your ex want you back. But in many she does still have feelings for you and if you do a proper job of detecting them than chances are good she will come back to you. In the end you want to trust what your heart is telling you. Does your ex want you back? Well follow your heart and see what happens.

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