How To Win In Love (Part 3)

This is going to be part 3 in my long series on how to keep a healthy relationship. Make sure you bookmark and keep coming back to read more as this will be quite a lengthy series.
9. Stop Being Predictable

So what made your healthy relationship go from great to not there? It was the predictability or the boredom. There was never anything new happening. It was always the same old thing. He would have his thing and likewise with she. So why not show some interest in the other persons likes. Surprise them one day. Show up and participate in what they are doing and hopefully they will give you the same respect when you are doing your thing. Take some chances and do things your partner would never expect.

10. Take A Pill

There is going to be tough spots in all relationships. That’s no big deal because it happens in all relationships. The problem is not letting these issues get too series. So even if times are tense just lighten up. There’s no reason to get excited over every little comment. People always say stupid things in times of stress. Both you and your partner are going to make mistakes. Just realize that you are both human and that happens. A great way to break the tension is make fun of yourself for what you said. This will get both you and your partner laughing again.

11. Talk To each Other

If you want to maintain a healthy relationship then for heaven’s sake don’t stop talking. It is very common in a relationship when things are tough for each partner to stop talking to one another. It’s a great idea to make a commitment to one another that you will talk about things that are bothering you. Also commit to not letting these talks turn into arguments. I can guarantee you will have a very healthy relationship as long as you leave the lines of communication open.

12. Don’t Forget The Bedroom

Love making and intimacy is a definite must in maintaining a healthy relationship. When there are troubles in the relationship most times sex isn’t even thought about. However this is very important to help heal the relationship. Although things may seem a bit awkward at first it is very important. It doesn’t hurt to set up a romantic setting. Hot bubble bath, candles, wine or even rent a nice hotel room for an evening get away. This will definitely put some zoom back into building a healthy relationship.

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How To Win In Love (Part 1)

Facts To Help Your Marriage

Now a days in our society marriage seems to just be a game to many people. With the divorce rate hovering around 50% we really need some help. Commitment is just a word that people are mispelling, dating is like a speed race. No one is stopping to get to know one another. So if you happen to be one of the lucky ones that is in a relationship or marriage that you feel is worth working for then I have some help for you.

1. Lets Get Back To The Beginning

We all know that at the start of a relationship everything usually runs as smooth as oil. We all seem to ignore the little annoyances but then the nagging starts. You start picking at one another. So if this sounds like your relationship then its time to sit down and be honest with each other. Now both of you want to make a promise to start over. You need to figure out the things that worked in the past and get back to them. No one is saying this is going to be a piece of cake. You have to both forgive and forget and commit to putting in the effort to getting things the way they used to be. You have to remember to be patient and focus on the little things that made you happy whenyou first started dating.

2. Make Time For Each Other

In todays hustle and bustle making time for one another can often prove to be very difficult. So thats why both of you have to make the commitment to schedule time together and stick to the chosen times. This time can be with friends, it can be going out for a nice meal or even snuggling together on a couch watching the latest new release. Now we all know that when we schedule a business meeting we always show up so its imperitve that you show your relationship the same courtesy. Once the time is set aside the only way you miss it is if someone is dyeing or it may just be you dyeing.

3. A Shocking Touch

Can you just walk up to your partner and give them a nice soft non sexual kiss on the neck. Maybe just play with their hair while watching television or just caress their skin when the opportunity presents itself. Remember you are reaching for affection and not sex. There is a differance. When you first start doing this you may get some weird looks of surprise from your partner but trust me they will look forward to you continuing to do it.

4. Keep Things On The Edge

Ok lets say ahead of time you and your significant other made some plans. Well now that the plans are made its up to you to turn this into an even bigger event. Go behind your partners back and plan something that they love doing. Lets say your hubby loves hockey. So ahead of time you purchase some great tickets for a hockey game. Make sure you drive. When hubby questions as to where the heck you guys are headed tell him what you did. Its something like this that will severley touch his heart and something he will remember forever.

I get my experiance from 20 years of succesful marriage. Everything I mention in this post and future posts are all things I have been able to experiance with my spouse. Also you can check my dating blog by clicking the link below.

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